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To Swaddle or Not to Swaddle? This is the Question.

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Swaddling a baby might sound outdated to many parents. Swaddling is indeed an old practice of wrapping infants in blankets or similar cloths so that movement of the limbs is tightly but softly restricted. According to studies and research, it seems that swaddling was invented in the Palaeolithic period. Swaddling was described in the Bible as a cloth tied...

3 Activities for Children during the Autumn Lockdown

Here we are again. Autumn Lockdown 2.0! This pandemic has affected a lot of things in our life, mentally especially. I know we are all worried about this situation but in a way we’re also reacting and learning how to coexist with it. Now more than ever we have to take more care of ourselves,...

Empowered Birthing Mother Summit

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I’m very excited to be part of the Empowered Birthing Mother Summit! Saturday 14th & Sunday 15th November 2020, 10am-3pm An International Panel of Pregnancy Experts Appearing Live on Facebook 8 Talks, Classes and Presentations Raising Money for the Doula Access Fund Pregnancy, childbirth and new motherhood is a time of immense transformation at every...

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My name is Valentina. I'm a London baby and maternity photographer.

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Newborn sessions with siblings, especially toddlers, can be unpredictable.
Some days they are all in. Other days they aren’t. And that’s okay.

This big sister wasn’t very keen on being in the photos. So instead of forcing it, I gave her a different role. 
She became my assistant. 
She helped me photograph her baby brother and her parents.
Suddenly, she felt special. She was part of the process. And Mum still got the beautiful family photos she wanted.

I find that involving toddlers and giving them a job to do works magic. 
It shifts their energy from resistance to collaboration. 
Everyone feels seen. Everyone gets their moment.

This is what 15 years of experience looks like. Knowing when to adapt. Knowing how to make it work for every member of the family.

If you’re expecting a second baby and worried about how your toddler will handle a newborn session, don’t be. 

We’ll find a way to include them that feels right for everyone.

Want to chat about your family’s newborn session?

Let’s talk about what this could look like for you. DM me.

#londonnewbornphotographer #newbornphotoshoot #newbornbaby #newbornphotos
Through motherhood, we go through job titles quicker than in an entire career 

I personally went from 
Mamma → Mummy → Mum → Vale…
and now I’m just Bruh or Buddy. 🙈

They grow up fast and one day they won’t even want to be in the photo!

So let’s make the most of these Mummy years!

What’s the funniest name your kids have called you? Come on let’s have a laugh in the comments

#motherhood #mumhumour #mumlifebelike #parentlife #londonmums #photographybyvalentina
This is what happens when you book a newborn session with me.

You come to my studio. Maybe you’re tired. Maybe you’re overwhelmed. Maybe you’re wondering if this is worth it. Maybe all of the above!

You arrive, I welcome you in, offer you tea, and we slow down.
I guide you gently through everything, so you can just be present with your baby.

I capture the tiny details. The yawns. The way your family looks at this new little person. The love that’s already there.

And then picture this! A few weeks later, something arrives at your door.

Not just digital files. Not just photos on a screen.

But a beautiful album, designed for you, ready to hold and show your child one day.

That’s the difference between a photo session and what I create. 

It’s not just about capturing moments. It’s about preserving them in a way that lasts.

Your newborn days are fleeting. 
But this? This stays forever.

Ready to create your family’s heirloom?

#londonnewbornphotographer #londonmums #newbornshoot #newbornphotographertwickenham
Today is World Mental Health Day, and I want to say this gently: you don’t have to have it all together to be worthy of care, love, or rest.

Motherhood, creativity, business. They all carry invisible weights sometimes. 
It’s okay to set them down for a moment. 
It’s okay to just be.

There’s real courage in that stillness.

PS.  If this resonates, you might find comfort in my book Milk Tales. A collection of stories about the emotional side of motherhood, and the courage it takes to be honest about how we really feel.
If you need a soft space today, it’s waiting for you on Amazon.
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VALE@PHOTOGRAPHYBYVALENTINA.COM

07577 978246

LONDON NEWBORN & MATERNITY PHOTOGRAPHER

BASED NEAR RICHMOND - TWICKENHAM