Embracing Confidence Through Photography: A Journey of Self-Discovery

Guest Blog by Justine Blanchard, Body Confidence Wellness

Embracing Confidence Through Photography: A Journey of Self-Discovery

As a body confidence & wellbeing coach, I’ve always believed in the transformative power of love and acceptance, although it took me a long time to achieve that for myself. Using the following tools helps me on my ever-expanding journey of self-discovery and empowerment.

Coaching others through their journey of self-discovery, I’ve had the privilege of witnessing firsthand the incredible impact that embracing one’s uniqueness can have on confidence and self-esteem. 

Let’s explore how photography can be used as a body confidence tool, much like how ‘Mirror work’ and ‘Affirmations’ can serve as powerful tools for empowerment and self-expression.

First, let me tell you a bit more about ‘Mirror Work’ and ‘Affirmations.’  Louise Hay, renowned author and motivational speaker, famously taught mirror work and affirmations as ways to achieve self-love, self-worth, self-belief, acceptance, and more! By looking into the mirror and affirming positive statements about ourselves, we can reprogramme our subconscious mind and gain a deeper sense of ourselves and deeper connections to ourselves. 

These practices encourage us to see ourselves through our own lens of love and appreciation. These are tools to help us challenge our negative, and often untrue, perceptions of ourselves, and help us to nurture a more positive image. 

In much the same way, photography offers an opportunity for us to see ourselves in a new light.

When we’re in front of the lens as the subject, photography invites us to explore who we are – an expression of our true authentic selves – inside and outside. Through the photographer’s lens, we can capture moments of our lives that celebrate us, our essence, and how far we’ve come. 

I often encourage clients to embrace self-expression as a means of sharing their stories and celebrating their journey. Whether through mirror work, affirmations, or photography, the goal remains the same – to build a deeper connection with ourselves and enhance a sense of empowerment from within.

Woman holding hands on shoulder as a self-love act

In my own journey, I’ve found photography to be a profoundly empowering experience. Collaborating with talented photographers like Valentina, I’ve had opportunities to explore new depths of self-expression, authenticity, and fun. 

From ‘glamour shots’ style experiences with my Mum or friends, to engagement & wedding shoots, to branding shoots, each click of the camera becomes an affirmation of my unique beauty and a celebration of the journey that has brought me to this point.

Just as mirror work and affirmations encourage us to see ourselves through our own lens of love and appreciation, photography offers a tangible reflection of our essence. Whether we’re capturing moments of joy, vulnerability, or strength, each photograph becomes a testament to our passions, our beliefs, our resilience, and our courage.

As we continue our ever-expanding journey of self-discovery and empowerment, let’s remember the transformative power of mirror work, affirmations, and photography. By embracing these practices, we can build a deeper sense of our own love and acceptance. We can continue to empower ourselves, embrace our uniqueness and celebrate the beauty of every age and stage of life.

When was the last time you celebrated yourselves with a photoshoot? 


I have recently launched the over-40s experience to celebrate the remarkable women who have reached this stage in life and to capture the essence of who you are – both inside and out.

I’ll be honoured to be part of your journey of rediscovery.

Related article: The Therapeutic Influence of Photos on Daily Well-being

Related article: What’s the Value of a Photograph?

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Newborn sessions with siblings, especially toddlers, can be unpredictable.
Some days they are all in. Other days they aren’t. And that’s okay.

This big sister wasn’t very keen on being in the photos. So instead of forcing it, I gave her a different role. 
She became my assistant. 
She helped me photograph her baby brother and her parents.
Suddenly, she felt special. She was part of the process. And Mum still got the beautiful family photos she wanted.

I find that involving toddlers and giving them a job to do works magic. 
It shifts their energy from resistance to collaboration. 
Everyone feels seen. Everyone gets their moment.

This is what 15 years of experience looks like. Knowing when to adapt. Knowing how to make it work for every member of the family.

If you’re expecting a second baby and worried about how your toddler will handle a newborn session, don’t be. 

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Through motherhood, we go through job titles quicker than in an entire career 

I personally went from 
Mamma → Mummy → Mum → Vale…
and now I’m just Bruh or Buddy. 🙈

They grow up fast and one day they won’t even want to be in the photo!

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This is what happens when you book a newborn session with me.

You come to my studio. Maybe you’re tired. Maybe you’re overwhelmed. Maybe you’re wondering if this is worth it. Maybe all of the above!

You arrive, I welcome you in, offer you tea, and we slow down.
I guide you gently through everything, so you can just be present with your baby.

I capture the tiny details. The yawns. The way your family looks at this new little person. The love that’s already there.

And then picture this! A few weeks later, something arrives at your door.

Not just digital files. Not just photos on a screen.

But a beautiful album, designed for you, ready to hold and show your child one day.

That’s the difference between a photo session and what I create. 

It’s not just about capturing moments. It’s about preserving them in a way that lasts.

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Today is World Mental Health Day, and I want to say this gently: you don’t have to have it all together to be worthy of care, love, or rest.

Motherhood, creativity, business. They all carry invisible weights sometimes. 
It’s okay to set them down for a moment. 
It’s okay to just be.

There’s real courage in that stillness.

PS.  If this resonates, you might find comfort in my book Milk Tales. A collection of stories about the emotional side of motherhood, and the courage it takes to be honest about how we really feel.
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